Saturday, 24 December 2011

Yeah I missed it :(

Book smart does not mean Life smart

You have undoubtedly notice that many people with a Ph.D. degree aren't very happy, and some of the happiest people in this world  don't even know what Ph.D. is. Education has little to do with how happiness ans satisfaction an individual gets out of life. Someone can have a fancy education, but still not be very wise. Book smart does not mean life smart. 
Upon graduation, many university students believe that they are the elite of humanity, destined to experience incredible fame, fortune, adventure, and romance at an early age. Even the most brilliant of university graduates wind up going nowhere emotionally, financially, or socially. There is a big difference between intellectuals and intelligent people. Of course, many intellectuals have a hard time distinguishing between the two. Thus, these words by an unknown wise person : "Education is what helps a lot of folks get along without intelligence".
Study the behavior and attitude patterns of the truly successful of this world and you will see what makes them achievers and accomplishers. The successful people of this world did not learn the secrets of handling failure and inner mobility at universities or colleges. They learned these secrets in the arena called "Life by doing". A university degree doesn't teach people how to deal with pressures of life or how to attain happiness and satisfaction. A university student may learn what is wrong with the economy, but not how to make a comfortable living as an human or entrepreneur. 
Intellect is not wisdom. To be life smart, your wisdom along with your creativity and motivation must be superior to your intellect. The really important things you learn in life are the result of the your real education, an education that has nothing to do with the curricula in place at schools and universities. You acquire this education through your personal experiences, far removed from from your formal education.
In certain ways, being life smart is nothing more than common sense. It is the ability to question things, and then take action accordingly. If you are thinking of going back to university to get a Ph.D. degree, be careful with the knowledge that you acquire there. Much of the knowledge will be useless in the game of life. You may find that it's harder to get rid of a   Ph.D. than to get one. I totally agree cause knowledge is the important thing when you want to apply or get a Ph.D. Without knowledge you can't graduate and achieve the great success in your life. Remember that peeps. -xoxo


Wednesday, 21 December 2011

Just wait for the moment :(

I'm not happy :(

Monday, 19 December 2011


Hellooooo peeps! Sorry didn't update too much about life cause I'm struggling with it now. I am running down an endless hallway and yet I have no idea why. I look around and see tests, garbage, and dishes flying around as if being sucked into a black hole. At last there is a small light near the end but as I reach for it, it continues to move further and further away. I leap forward trying to catch the light and I suddenly find myself falling deep into an endless pit. As I am falling, I feel the breeze blowing through my hair and the sensation of a carefree world. I embrace my fall and accept this as a gift. Thoughts of tests, studies, family problems, and so many things rush through my mind! The truth of the matter is that family is always first. It is something that I am learning to cope with but also learning to respect. I knew I got family problem. TOTALLY worst right now but I just keep pretending and smile like there's nothing happen. What else can I do aye? I have no job cause I'm still studying and will graduate next year. Haih I wish I could help my family. They keep arguing everyday. And hell its ANNOYING okay? I do love my mom, dad, sisters, and brothers but I can't help them. I just praying everyday and hope that tomorrow will be better than yesterday. I want MONEY and help my family. That's all I want to do. I want my family happy and cheers with smile. Hm mommy I'm sorry. I promise when I got a job already I'll make you happy as I can. For those who didn't know me well they might think I have a rich family and get what I want but hell yeah they TOTALLY wrong! Imma secretive person cause I won't tell my problems to other. Its kinda privacy. But I feel relieved when I started to write my problems in blog here. Guys sorry if I couldn't update more often about my life cause I'm trying to handle it by myself. 
-Loving family always,
I love my family :')

Wednesday, 7 December 2011


Yeah man :')

So true! :((

Thursday, 1 December 2011

Back to December

Hellooooooo December! "No matter what has happened, something good is always around the corner and the sun will always shine again". 

What's up peeps? Hope you guys doing so well aye? Hihi december please be nice to me okay?

I can't wait to continue my college's life on 23rd December! Hee feel so relieved! Since life offers no guarantee's and you would never know that your decision would be wrong until you have made it, then you might as well take the risk and decide. It is definitely better than keeping yourself in limbo. Although it's true that one wrong turn can get you lost, it could also be that such a turn could be an opportunity for an adventure, moreover open up even more roads. It's all a matter of perspective. You have the choice between being a lost traveler or an accidental tourist of life. But take some caution that you don't make decisions haphazardly. Taking risks is not about being careless and stupid. So think wisely guys!

Oh by the way, I got my latest idol that I'm currently addicted to him! Man I swear he's the cutest guy I ever seen! His named TIAGO IORC! Go search him on youtube! He's really good in making country songs! Wuuu I love him! Ngeh ngeh though he's still young 25years old! My fav song's 'Fine'.

Wuu cutest guy ever! :D

Monday, 28 November 2011

IF you were born on?

IF you were born on the:

1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month you are number 1.
2nd, 11th, 20th, 29th of any month then you are number 2.
3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th of any month then you are number 3.
4th, 13th, 22nd, 31st of any month then you are Number 4.
5th, 14th, 23rd of any month then you are number 5.
6th, 15th, 24th of any month then you are number 6.
7th, 16th, 25th of any month then you are number 7.
8th, 17th, 26th of any month then you are number 8.
9th, 18th, 27th of any month then you are number 9.

Number 1
You are smart, a straight talker, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest, jealous
on a competitive basis, kind hearted, temperamental, friendly, and popular. You
always want to be on the top and most likely to be independent. You are most
likely to fall in love at a young age, but will marry once you mature! You are
likely to have problems with people who have opposite views and you are most
likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a
spender, but you will have a good profession in the future. If you are guy you
will be very popular. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of
the parliament because you are positive and talented in numerous areas. But in
your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you &
your name down. Because of your intelligence, some might hate you. You are a
pioneer, independent & original your best match is 4, 6, 8 while a good match
would be with 3,5,7

Number 2
No matter what, every one will love you because you are ruled by the Moon. You
day dream a lot, you have a very low-self esteem, you need to have a back up for
every move in your life, you are very unpredictable. You tend to change
according to time and circumstances, selfish, have a very strong sense of
musical and artistic talent and powerful verbal communication. You can be sweet
as an angel and can be ruthless when double-crossed. Some might say you have a
sixth sense. You will become a poet, writer, an artist or a businessperson. You
are not strong in love, so your relationship will be in disarray until you
settle down. If you are a girl, you will be responsible for your family. If you
are a man, you tend to get involve in fights & arguments in the family. You will
sacrifice your life for your family. You are gentle, intuitive with a broad
vision. You make a well-balanced person. Your best match is 2, 7,5, and 9 no
other people can put up with you!!!

Number 3
You are hardhearted and selfish most of the time. You always tend to have lots
of problems within your family in the early stages but you will be able to cope
with everything. You seem to have your way in everything. And from birth you
would always have to work hard to achieve anything you want. You always make a
point to set examples on others, especially the younger ones. Generally you are
not a cool person. It's not easy dealing with you. A tough player you are! But
once you are comfortable with someone, it will be a lasting friendship. You
always earn respect from others. Your Ilk seems to have lots of worries and
problems but they won't be for long. You will have brilliant kids! You love
money a bit too much so temptation will push you to try endlessly. You will look
after your family and help friends, so you will spend a life time just being
generous and kind (except for men born on the 21st). You love your freedom,
creative and ambitious, a person who brings beauty, hope & joy to this world!!!
Your best match 6 and 9. Good match 1, 3, and 5

Number 4
You are very stubborn, very hard working but unlucky in important matters in
life, very cool and helpful. You might repel people away from you, you may cause
nuisance to others if you area man, as you gifted are with understanding other
people's problems. If you are a girl, you excel in your studies and arts. If you
are a guy you spend most of your time with girl friends and you tend to have too
much fun with your mates & girls. Your friends will spend your time & money and
get on with their life and you will be left empty handed. So be careful! You
love to spend. Your positive side is that you are always around to help family
and friends. You always fall in love with those younger than you. You often live
with disappointments but you will take good care of your family. You need to be
careful of people who will take advantage of your kind heart (ahaks!). And
beware of your relationships too. You are radical, patient, persistent, and a
hit old-fashioned; you live with foundation & order. Your best match 1, 8. Good
match 5, 6, and 7

Number 5
You are very popular and you can get things done only by talking. Even to your
enemies! You are business-minded and like to do things spontaneously. You will
be famous if you get involved in any business. Your friends and families will
always ask for your help, and you are the one actually with the money to help
your friends. You will have more than one relationship, but when you settle down
you tend to be selfish. You tend to go for other relationships - even if you are
married at times because of your popularity. You tend to get along easily with
anyone because the numbers is a middle number. You love freedom and changes. You
learn your life through your personal experiences. Your best match 1, 2, Good
match 6, 8.

Number 6
Ooopppss... You were born to enjoy! You don't care about others. I mean you
always wanted to have a lifetime of enjoyment. You will excel in either
education or business management! You are talented, kind (but with only people
who you think are nice), and popular. All good things come easily to you. Your
mind and body is just made perfect for love. You are loveable by any number. But
if you are a number 6 men, you will be involved in more than a few relationships
until you get married. If you are a girl, most of you will get married/engaged
early. You are a caring person towards your family and friends. You are a person
of compassion, comfort & fairness, domestic responsibility, good judgment, and
after all you can heal this world's wounds to make peace for everyone because
you have the great power and caring talent to take the world of love one step
further.. Your best match 7, 6, and 9. Good match 4, 5.

Number 7
You are realistic, confident, happy, and talented in education, music, art,
singing, and most importantly in acting. You also have a bad temper! You value
your family status a lot; you will be in the top rank when you reach a certain
age. If you are a guy you are popular with girls. Most of the number 7s faces
lots of problems with their married life. Only a few are happy. You have
everything in your life but with worries throughout your lifetime. You need to
get ready looking for a partner rather than waiting. If you don't, then you
might end-up being single. You are born to contribute to everyone's joy. Your
best match is 2. Good matches are 1, 4.

Number 8
You have a very strong personality and people will find it hard to understand
you. You are more likely to suffer in your younger years. You might be also the
one responsible to look out for your family. You often suffer all the way
through life. You will learn life in a very practical way. You are the one who
will fight for justice and may even die in the war too. You are normally very
reserved with a handful of friends and most of the time, live life alone and
always prepared to help others. However, once you settle down, (which is often
late), then your had lucks will disappear. You will face unexpected problems
such as encountering poisonous animals, and accidents. You are highly-
disciplined, persistence, and courageous, and it is your strength that will take
you to success. You are a great part of a family team. You are a fighter! Your
Best match 1, 4 and 8. Good match 5.

Number 9
You guys are the most incompatible people in the world. You are so strong,
physically and mentally. You often have big-aims. You will work hard and will
think it's still hard to get there, even if you already have gotten there!
Normally you suffer in the early age from family problems and generally you will
have to fight in life. You are respected by others. You were however very
naughty in your childhood, and often got beaten up by your parents and had been
involved in fights and you seemed to have suffered lots of injuries. But when
you grow older you become calm and will fall into the quiet and dignified macho
type. Love is not an easy matter for you. You are however good in engineering or
banking jobs because people always trust you. Your family life is very good, but
you will always worry over your children. Your finer qualities are that you are
humanitarian, patient, very wise & compassionate. You are born to achieve
targets and serve every one equally without any prejudice. You are a role model
for everyone. Your best match 3, 5, 6, and 9. Good match 2.

P/s Man this is so true! Hihi Imma number 9 yo! :D

Saturday, 26 November 2011


Helloooo peeps! How are guys doing recently? I'm kicking good but there's a problem about my life and shouldn't mention here aye? I'm tired for living in this world. I don't know why. All bad things they might blame on me but how about good things that I had done?! Don't ya see I'm sacrifice myself for doing that? Hmm everybody wants MONEY, MONEY, MONEY! If don't have money they would blame on you. This is UNFAIR :((. Its okay just wait till I'm fully working and got a lots of money. So you guys can love me as I exist in family. Pfftttt :3. By the way yesterday I went to mall and bought this awesome acoustic CD! Omg! I'm freaking love her since I was 17years old! Hee she's really good at playing guitar while singing!Well her named Sabrina. She's from Philippines! Wish I can meet her soon aye? Guys go buy her CD! You won't regret! She got 4 CD! Buy all!
See how beautiful she is! Love her! :B

Then, I watched Twilight Breaking Dawn Part 1! Damn! It was awesome! I can't wait for part 2 yo! I love culllen's family! Hihi they all are cute and shining vampire! Finally Bella become a vampire! Wohoo happy for her cause edward no need to bite her anymore :P. After that, I saw a dvd store sold Harry Potter and Deathly Hallows Part 2! Hee I bought it! Man Imma his die hard fans! Woo happy happy! I love you Harry Potter! Marry me please? Hahaha he won't :D. Go grab it guys if you're his fans!
I love you Harry Potter! Hee :D

Saturday, 12 November 2011


In life sometimes we run into relationships which may be unequally yolked. Unequally yolked is a term meaning that sometimes a person may bring way more to a relationship or friendship than the person on the other end. This may happen in a variety of ways, for example, one person may never make time in a relationship for the other person in the relationship until the time is convenient enough for them. Symptoms of an unequally yolked relationship include but are not limited to lies, broken promises, and excuses of why a person can't make time for the other person participating in the relationship.

If you ever realize that these symptoms are taking place in a relationship or friendship you have with someone take heed and be very cautious. Chances are if you are not important enough to spend time with, not be lied to, and to not be given broken promises on a consistent basis to this person at this time, you probably never will be important enough for this person. There must be better friendships or relationships that you haven't found yet, in which you will be treated with the utmost importance.

Thursday, 10 November 2011


Helloooo buddy! What ya doing? Hihi sorry I've been busy recently cause of my college's stuff. Everything was fine. I'm so glad having my family around even they might got a problem and I just hoping that we were back to old days, seeing each other happy and laugh, eat together , travelling and much more! *What a happy family aye?  :D Oh by the way its 11/11/11 today! Hee such a great number and nice day! Lets make a wish or create memories! So what's my plan for today? Erm perhaps family dinner or shopping with my mommy :). Lets talk about love aye? People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

P/s I'm still single yo :B


Tuesday, 8 November 2011

Don't quit!

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but don’t you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out,
Don’t give up though the pace seems slow,
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor’s cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out,
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit,
It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.

Friday, 4 November 2011

This is what True Love is about

Lady: Why do you like me? Why do you love me?

Man : I can't tell the reason. But I really like you.

Lady : You can't even tell me the reason how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?

Man : I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.

Lady : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!

Man : Ok ok! Hmm because you are beautiful,

because your voice is sweet,

because you are caring,

because you are loving,

because you are thoughtful,

because of your smile,

because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer.


Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went into the coma stage.

The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:


Because of your sweet voice that I love you. Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your care and concern that I like you. Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile, because of your every movement that I love you...Now can you smile? Now can you move?

No, therefore, I cannot love you.

If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason? NO!

Therefore, I still love you. And love doesn't need a reason

With love always,

Forever yours.

Relationships are hard to handle might even seem impossible at times.
There will be many fights and many quarrels,

many disagreements and many tears.

The easiest thing would be to give up.

But if we spent half the energy we use in fighting with each other,

and spend that energy in fighting to keep the relationship strong, then that is love

Remember, in a relationship, giving up is not the solution Disagreements, fights and quarrels will always be there.

But you must always fight harder to stay together.

Some fights are truly worth fighting!

P/s I'm wishing my love story just like above :B


Saturday, 29 October 2011

Don't mess around with Reality and Reality won't mess around with you!

Helloooo peeps! What's up? Hee I'm back to write something news! Oh by the way I just deleted my post about 'him' I mean mr.Gummy bear! You guys wanna know why I deleted that post? Well simple cause I wanna forget about him 100%. Hihi maybe I suits for singaporean guys? Who knows aye? Or someone that waiting for me long ago? Ze new zealand guy? Haha lets pray for me the best okay? I love being single man! That's only thing I can live for now. FREEDOM! Simple words :B. Though I'm so happy cause I'm gonna continue my study on december! Hihi proud of it! Wee lets back to my main topic about REALITY. No FAKE! One thing that will hold us back in life is the big difference between life is and what we think ought to be. False expectations about the world can be paralyzing to the human psyche. "What is, is and what ought to be is damn lie". The bigger the difference between what is and what we think that life ought to be, the bigger lie we are likely to live.
The majority of people spend way too much time idealizing how things ought to be, and way too little time observing and accepting how things really are. Fantasies about how life ought to be tend to obscure the facts about how life really is. People lose sight of reality and then wonder why they can't make things work out the way they would like. They end up being swept along by negative events without an understanding of what really is going on.
Reality sets certain rules for playing the game of life. It is essential that you learn these rules. Only an idiot persist in playing a game without learning the rules. Reality can be harsh, but you better respect it. Mess around with it and it will knock you down every time. If you don't mess around with reality, then it won't mess around with you.
Reality doesn't care how good your intentions are. If you mess around with gravity and reality by walking off the roof of a ten story building, you will dearly for it. Reality won't care that you were testing a new product to help humanity. The fact that you were descent person with good intentions won't make a bit different.
Life doesn't care how we would like it to be. There ought to be make less money and the poor ought to make more.
Life will never be the way we want it to be nor the way it ought to be. Accepting reality for what it is will liberate you from the imprisonment of what ought to be. Unless you see your life for what it is, and not as some fantasy representing what you would like it to be. Being able to see life as really is, and not what it ought to be, is a great asset indeed.

I just love reading books! :B

Wednesday, 19 October 2011

Excuses and Blame won't make a bit of difference in your life!

Hey peeps! Sorry I've been busy lately. So many things happened in my life. Zzz I don't know how can I handle and manage it by my own. Family problems? Hell yeah its been a week I didn't talk with my dad. Well just lets this thing go slowly. I'm sure this is part of life that I need struggle for. Don't worry peeps Imma SUPERWOMAN. Hihi thats why I'm so strong :B. Lets back to my main topic aye? It's unfortunate that so many people in our society have accepted blaming others and making excuses as the way to explain their shortcomings and predicaments. Too many people don't accept responsibility for their problems and unhappiness. Excuses are tools utilized to cover up laziness, a lack of motivation, and fear of failure. People fall in love with their excuses for why they are stuck in their present positions, and why they are getting nowhere in life.
There are many excuses when we really look : If I had a better education, if I had better parents, if the economy was better, if I had more breaks in life like others have and etc. '1000 excuses and no good reasons'.
If you have been passing blame for your shortcomings, now is the time to stop. Stop blaming society. Stop blaming the education system. Stop blaming the government. Stop blaming the economy. Who or what is there left to blame? Yourself! Who else? If your daily life seems poor. do not blame it. Blame yourself, tell yourself that you are not poet enough to call forth its riches!
Blaming yourself in a positive way is the best way to respond to your setbacks. After you have committed yourself to signing an agreement or contract of sorts, it's pointless to anyone else when you discover the terms aren't as generous to you as you had thought.
The day you start blaming yourself in a positive way is the day you are on your way to a life that really works. Winners blame themselves, losers blame others! Becoming really good at making excuses for all areas of your life means you won't be good at anything else. Look hard enough and you will find people with far less talent, education, good looks, or charm than you accomplishing incredible things in this world. These people have generated few or no excuses for their failures.  'When a man blames others for his failures, it's a good idea to credit others with his successes'.


Thursday, 13 October 2011

15 facts about girls!

Here's the facts :

1. Girls are inborn moody. When girls are having some bad mood, guys don't compete with her anger.

2. When girls are sulking. Guys be ready to cuddle them, kiss them and be ready to say the secret password "I love you". For sure, things will be okay.

3. Girls loves to hear sweet compliments, because for girls it inceases their self-confidence. Guys, if they have this new look, give them some attention.

4. When girls are too serious on something, guys for sure there's something wrong. If that's the case, guys did something, that girls don't like. So guys be alert. When girls says nothing, it means, there's something. Girls are just too shy to let us know. Guys force them to say something and after they say it. Everything will be back to normal again.

5. Girls are too jealous mankind. Therefore, guys stop flirting with other girls, especially in front of them. Take note, some girls are too quiet if they get jealous, they observe your every action. Guys, if you don't stop, expect world war 3!

6. Girls normally attract to handsome guys, but until their eyes only. Girls might attract to a 1 million guys, but their heart remain to the one they truly love.

7. Girls are very proud about their relationship like guys can't notice. Such as, in (Group text message), Facebook and TUMBLR.

8. Girls don't like short courtship. And girls don't like to ask something like, "When will you be my Girlfriend?", it irritates them. Guys should learn how to wait and be sincere.

9. If girls are sad or silent, they want a hug from guys, because it makes them feel better when guys hold them tight.

10. Girls love guys who have higher respect to girls. Such as, no kiss, if they don't want too. Instead, show them fondness in a nice way. Girls like guys to kiss them on the forehead, because it symbolizes, respect.

11. Girls are easily turn on to a guy who is very protective. Girls likes the feeling of being safe with her man.

12. Girls like guys in action, not in words. That's why most girls prefer guys they can see personally than text or chat.

13. Girls really love guys who shows effort, even without a special day. And girls loves to be treated as Princess.

14. Girls like guys who introduce her to his friends and especially to his family. They feel they are the luckiest woman on earth!

15. Girls are very pretenous, especially if they are badly hurt. When girls left all alone, that's the time they let their feelings out, that's the time they cry a lot. And that's why, girls love sensitive guys.

Wednesday, 12 October 2011

99 Facts about guys

Here's the facts!

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.


Monday, 10 October 2011


Always be happy, never be satisfied!
Everyone seems to have a 'default' level of happiness.
People fall in love, get promoted,
buy dream homes,
some actually achieve fame.
Others suffer hardship,
have money problems
or even suffer a tragedy,
but they still soon return to this
seemingly preset happiness level.

Most of us will never be totally satisfied, regardless of what happens,
so we might as well make a conscious decision to be happy anyway.
Could you raise your default happiness setting by a notch or two?
That way you can always be happy even if you're still chasing dreams.


Friday, 7 October 2011

Bend in the road!

When you feel you have nothing left to give
And you're sure that the song has ended,
And it seems there's no reason to live
And the darkness of night has descended.

Where can you go to find the strength
You need to keep on trying?
Where can you find the hand that will dry
The tears of your heart is crying.

When you're filled with hopelessness and sorrow,
Looking at what seems to be end,
God will whisper, ''Wait until tomorrow,''
The heartbreak is only bend in the road.
Bend in the road, bend in the road.

The road will continue past the bend
And you'll sing as go on your journey,
And hope in your heart will burn again
As you see the light for which you're dreaming.

Be comforted to know the Lord is with you
He's closer than other friend
He whisper to your heart to reassure you
That happiness is just around the bend in the road.
Bend in the road, bend in the road.

*Just random writing that I got from my mind :3