Saturday, 29 October 2011

Don't mess around with Reality and Reality won't mess around with you!

Helloooo peeps! What's up? Hee I'm back to write something news! Oh by the way I just deleted my post about 'him' I mean mr.Gummy bear! You guys wanna know why I deleted that post? Well simple cause I wanna forget about him 100%. Hihi maybe I suits for singaporean guys? Who knows aye? Or someone that waiting for me long ago? Ze new zealand guy? Haha lets pray for me the best okay? I love being single man! That's only thing I can live for now. FREEDOM! Simple words :B. Though I'm so happy cause I'm gonna continue my study on december! Hihi proud of it! Wee lets back to my main topic about REALITY. No FAKE! One thing that will hold us back in life is the big difference between life is and what we think ought to be. False expectations about the world can be paralyzing to the human psyche. "What is, is and what ought to be is damn lie". The bigger the difference between what is and what we think that life ought to be, the bigger lie we are likely to live.
The majority of people spend way too much time idealizing how things ought to be, and way too little time observing and accepting how things really are. Fantasies about how life ought to be tend to obscure the facts about how life really is. People lose sight of reality and then wonder why they can't make things work out the way they would like. They end up being swept along by negative events without an understanding of what really is going on.
Reality sets certain rules for playing the game of life. It is essential that you learn these rules. Only an idiot persist in playing a game without learning the rules. Reality can be harsh, but you better respect it. Mess around with it and it will knock you down every time. If you don't mess around with reality, then it won't mess around with you.
Reality doesn't care how good your intentions are. If you mess around with gravity and reality by walking off the roof of a ten story building, you will dearly for it. Reality won't care that you were testing a new product to help humanity. The fact that you were descent person with good intentions won't make a bit different.
Life doesn't care how we would like it to be. There ought to be make less money and the poor ought to make more.
Life will never be the way we want it to be nor the way it ought to be. Accepting reality for what it is will liberate you from the imprisonment of what ought to be. Unless you see your life for what it is, and not as some fantasy representing what you would like it to be. Being able to see life as really is, and not what it ought to be, is a great asset indeed.

I just love reading books! :B

Wednesday, 19 October 2011

Excuses and Blame won't make a bit of difference in your life!

Hey peeps! Sorry I've been busy lately. So many things happened in my life. Zzz I don't know how can I handle and manage it by my own. Family problems? Hell yeah its been a week I didn't talk with my dad. Well just lets this thing go slowly. I'm sure this is part of life that I need struggle for. Don't worry peeps Imma SUPERWOMAN. Hihi thats why I'm so strong :B. Lets back to my main topic aye? It's unfortunate that so many people in our society have accepted blaming others and making excuses as the way to explain their shortcomings and predicaments. Too many people don't accept responsibility for their problems and unhappiness. Excuses are tools utilized to cover up laziness, a lack of motivation, and fear of failure. People fall in love with their excuses for why they are stuck in their present positions, and why they are getting nowhere in life.
There are many excuses when we really look : If I had a better education, if I had better parents, if the economy was better, if I had more breaks in life like others have and etc. '1000 excuses and no good reasons'.
If you have been passing blame for your shortcomings, now is the time to stop. Stop blaming society. Stop blaming the education system. Stop blaming the government. Stop blaming the economy. Who or what is there left to blame? Yourself! Who else? If your daily life seems poor. do not blame it. Blame yourself, tell yourself that you are not poet enough to call forth its riches!
Blaming yourself in a positive way is the best way to respond to your setbacks. After you have committed yourself to signing an agreement or contract of sorts, it's pointless to anyone else when you discover the terms aren't as generous to you as you had thought.
The day you start blaming yourself in a positive way is the day you are on your way to a life that really works. Winners blame themselves, losers blame others! Becoming really good at making excuses for all areas of your life means you won't be good at anything else. Look hard enough and you will find people with far less talent, education, good looks, or charm than you accomplishing incredible things in this world. These people have generated few or no excuses for their failures.  'When a man blames others for his failures, it's a good idea to credit others with his successes'.


Thursday, 13 October 2011

15 facts about girls!

Here's the facts :

1. Girls are inborn moody. When girls are having some bad mood, guys don't compete with her anger.

2. When girls are sulking. Guys be ready to cuddle them, kiss them and be ready to say the secret password "I love you". For sure, things will be okay.

3. Girls loves to hear sweet compliments, because for girls it inceases their self-confidence. Guys, if they have this new look, give them some attention.

4. When girls are too serious on something, guys for sure there's something wrong. If that's the case, guys did something, that girls don't like. So guys be alert. When girls says nothing, it means, there's something. Girls are just too shy to let us know. Guys force them to say something and after they say it. Everything will be back to normal again.

5. Girls are too jealous mankind. Therefore, guys stop flirting with other girls, especially in front of them. Take note, some girls are too quiet if they get jealous, they observe your every action. Guys, if you don't stop, expect world war 3!

6. Girls normally attract to handsome guys, but until their eyes only. Girls might attract to a 1 million guys, but their heart remain to the one they truly love.

7. Girls are very proud about their relationship like guys can't notice. Such as, in (Group text message), Facebook and TUMBLR.

8. Girls don't like short courtship. And girls don't like to ask something like, "When will you be my Girlfriend?", it irritates them. Guys should learn how to wait and be sincere.

9. If girls are sad or silent, they want a hug from guys, because it makes them feel better when guys hold them tight.

10. Girls love guys who have higher respect to girls. Such as, no kiss, if they don't want too. Instead, show them fondness in a nice way. Girls like guys to kiss them on the forehead, because it symbolizes, respect.

11. Girls are easily turn on to a guy who is very protective. Girls likes the feeling of being safe with her man.

12. Girls like guys in action, not in words. That's why most girls prefer guys they can see personally than text or chat.

13. Girls really love guys who shows effort, even without a special day. And girls loves to be treated as Princess.

14. Girls like guys who introduce her to his friends and especially to his family. They feel they are the luckiest woman on earth!

15. Girls are very pretenous, especially if they are badly hurt. When girls left all alone, that's the time they let their feelings out, that's the time they cry a lot. And that's why, girls love sensitive guys.

Wednesday, 12 October 2011

99 Facts about guys

Here's the facts!

1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.

5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.

10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!

14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what? Uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.

22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate nice boy!

25. Guys love their moms.

26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.

28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.

33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.

37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.

39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!

48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.

51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.

53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”

59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!

97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.


Monday, 10 October 2011


Always be happy, never be satisfied!
Everyone seems to have a 'default' level of happiness.
People fall in love, get promoted,
buy dream homes,
some actually achieve fame.
Others suffer hardship,
have money problems
or even suffer a tragedy,
but they still soon return to this
seemingly preset happiness level.

Most of us will never be totally satisfied, regardless of what happens,
so we might as well make a conscious decision to be happy anyway.
Could you raise your default happiness setting by a notch or two?
That way you can always be happy even if you're still chasing dreams.


Friday, 7 October 2011

Bend in the road!

When you feel you have nothing left to give
And you're sure that the song has ended,
And it seems there's no reason to live
And the darkness of night has descended.

Where can you go to find the strength
You need to keep on trying?
Where can you find the hand that will dry
The tears of your heart is crying.

When you're filled with hopelessness and sorrow,
Looking at what seems to be end,
God will whisper, ''Wait until tomorrow,''
The heartbreak is only bend in the road.
Bend in the road, bend in the road.

The road will continue past the bend
And you'll sing as go on your journey,
And hope in your heart will burn again
As you see the light for which you're dreaming.

Be comforted to know the Lord is with you
He's closer than other friend
He whisper to your heart to reassure you
That happiness is just around the bend in the road.
Bend in the road, bend in the road.

*Just random writing that I got from my mind :3


I do the best and only thing I can do at all times
I am wonderful and worthwhile just as I am
It is OK for me to be weak sometimes
I am as important and worthwhile as anyone else
I feel warm and loving toward myself
No one is more or less valuable or worthwhile to be
I refuse to call myself derogatory names
I accept the facts about myself, they are neither bad or good
I refuse to accept blame, either from myself or others
I love and appreciate myself just as I am
I accept my feelings as part of myself
It is OK to have feelings I do
My worth as a person is unrelated to anything
I am whole and complete just as I am.

45 things a Girl want, but won't ask for :)


1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!

26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.

31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.

36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.

41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.

You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love <3